Just Chantelle's Blog

Two short words that are supposed to last until death… WOW!!!

Are you married?  Single? Divorced?

To my MARRIED friends: Do you feel like its ok to have friends of the opposite sex?  Can your husband or wife have opposite sex friends as well?  Why is it such a big deal to have friends that are just that FRIENDS who you are not trying to “get with”?  Marriage isn’t bondage. You should have enough trust in your mate to not assume anything is going on. If your husband/wife cannot read your messages, then you are dead wrong otherwise….

When you said “I Do” you decided that:
1. I do trust you
2. I do believe you’re the only one for me…
3. I finished the game I was playing and got the prize.

To my SINGLE friends:  Are you dating?  What is a SERIOUS relationship?  Anything SERIOUS should be leading to marriage. I DO is DONE…. Serious relationship is a work in progress.  Also, why is it that men are so afraid to commit?  They act as if they get the women then life is over… If you feel like life will be over if you get married, please dont date women who are waiting for the Lord to send them a mate… There are alot of women who do not want to get married so find one of them.  You’re occupying space that someone els could occupy.  Women, we arent innocent either… Why do we date men that we know aren’t ones that we feel are marriage material?  Why do we “fake it” til we “make it”.  Stop occupying his time, he could be looking for a woman who is going to love him for him and not what he can do for them… I said it….

To my DIVORCED friends:  What made you make a vow and break it?  Did you fall out of love?  Hmmmmm…..