What makes a person turn out to be vindictive when they break up? Nothing should ever make you want to kill another or be vindictive. If the relationship isn’t working, cool. You have options:
1. Sit down and talk about where the relationship is going. Search yourselves and see how much you really like each other (like is stronger than loving a mate)
2. Go to counselling. This is great for married couples (so I hear) because you have a mediator and it allows you to really understand the other person. If you’re not married but are working towards being married, this is great for you as well
3. Leave. Cut the loses. Move on. There’s someone for everyone (even though it seems like it’s a shortage of men). If you bought him clothes, shoes, rims… let him keep them. What are you going to do with them? And the same thing goes for men, if you brought her jewelry… let her keep it.
The point is, nothing should ever make you do something that will cause you to go to jail or cause a hardship on your home. Do the adult thing and tell them “Peace out”, “deuces” or like my momma say, “Give them the gift of Goodbye”.
Don’t do this…
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