Just Chantelle's Blog

When I look at the people who have crossed my path I thank God for every one of them… There have been good examples of friends, mothers, fathers, children of God, ministers of the Gospel as well as whoremungers, abusers, deadbeats, backbiters… Each one had their place and role in making me the God-fearing woman who I am…

For some of these people, my heart bleeds for them. Meaning, I have so much compassion for them and there circumstances…

One thing I have a problem with is relationships gone sour… this is the one where there is a good mate and the other mate just sucks eggs… I have seen and or know of women in abusive relationships and they stay. Some because they want to and some because they are told that they have to…

God says in Malachi 2 that he hates divorce (understood)… Marriage is supposed to be honorable. If the two are saved, then there shouldn’t be a reason for divorce because they would understand that we are to reconcile (work things out). This doesn’t always happen as we know…

Paul, inspired by God, gave the church of Corinth a method of divorce… If they divorce for any reason outside of adultery, the woman either is to reconcile to her mate or stay unmarried.. Paul had to address the divorce subject because Corinth was OUT OF CONTROL… The same for today… When courting be as the bible says “Behold, I am sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves, so be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.”

My point: Love doesn’t bruise eyes, break bones and kills… I had a couple of women who I wish could be here today if they were told or helped with leaving a sour relationship… My heart is heavy…