Have you ever wondered why you were in the state you were in? Wondering if “is this the right job?” “Is this the right house” “should I live in this area” “Is this the right person to be with?”
What do you do when you come to this dilemma? One pray. Prayer is the key that will open any closed door. Prayer is where you will get directions (if you listen) and it is the way to having a pure heart and free from stress. Never make decisions with your heart… Love is an emotion….
During prayer, you can jot down the pros and cons of the situation. Is it even? Does the answer tilt more to the negative or the positive? Is there a clear line of 50/50? Do you find yourself giving more and getting little from the situation?
Communication… talk is cheap unless its not said… words not spoken can be interpreted the wrong way and are worthless… If you don’t ask questions or are afraid of the outcome or the answer that someone tells you then you really need to go back to prayer again…. I find that many times, in divorces, if the two people just had conversations, the majority of the relationships were salvageable. The book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus always puzzled me until I turned 30…. now I get it…. Men way of communication is shutting up… Women react by talking loud and continuous…
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