Just Chantelle's Blog

Have you missed the thought, touch, presence of something or someone? What about missing someone that was never yours to begin with?

I’ve been having one heck of a week. I think it’s because of my bday and mom day coming up… My mom was my listening ear and I miss her voice, her words, her awe inspired words from God.  None of those things will ever happen again but while I have breathe, I vow to not allow my pride our my crazy rules interfere with telling someone how I feel. My mom belonged to me for just a season and now she belongs to God.

So recently, Girl meets guy years ago… Girl and guy never “hook up”… Girl and guy know each other for years and always has nice things to say to one another and make wise cracks but still never “hook up”…. There seems to be an attraction. Girl thinks guy is a player and maybe just a ill too young so she tries to just ignore him.

One day, guy ask girl out. Now what! During the first conversations, the two decides to put everything they know about each other out of their minds. They talk on the phone and realize that maybe they like each other.

Girl realizes that guy isn’t what she thought. It’s so different for her… Things are going ok but girl starts missing his voice, his presence… Now instead of phone calls, they texts… Uh oh, whats wrong with this picture? Texting is the first strain on anyones relationship/friendship. Texting is impersonable. You can’t read motions, you can’t read their voice. LOL can’t be heard. Girlcan’t call guy cause she doesn’t want to seem “pressed” “anxious” “demanding”. Guy isn’t calling either because he, like girl, have rules about attachment and meeting in the middle (u give 5, I give 5)…. <<<~~~~ {pause} Please tell me here in the dating book is this rule/clause?

What I’ve come to realize is that many of us will miss that special person because we are too afraid to let one one know how we feel about them. Never allow pride to step in… It’s ok to miss someone that doesn’t BELONG to you. Having genuine friends are important in our journey though life. So, um yeah, I miss you… I miss being able to hear your voice and that laughter… Its crazy, but I do.  I think its because of your genuineness and personality.  And you are a “good dude”.  LOL